The old saying, “You speak volumes before the first word is spoken,” couldn’t be truer! As a personal safety expert and defensive tactics trainer with over 30 plus years of training and experience in law enforcement, corrections and the United States Marine Corps, I have often read assault victim reports, in which when asked what happened, the person shrugs, “I don’t know, he just punched me.”
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Controlling Your Space and Owning Your Environment- Book Excerpt
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MBPD Officers Receive De-Escalation Training
Back in August of 2018, WMBF News did a story about Vistelar's training program for the MBPD in Myrtle Beach. Click the image below to read the article and watch a video of what we do!
"Someone Is Watching!" There is No Need To Worry if You Know What to Do
Back in June of 2015, the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel did a story about one of Vistelar's trainers, Gary Klugiewicz. In this new age of social surveillance, professionals sometimes get into trouble. That said, when you get the right training and operate in good faith, security cameras and cellphones bring with them many opportunities to shine! In the end, we may be sacrificing privacy in public...
Managing Security and Safety in Healthcare Using Respect and Dignity
When differences divide us, treating each other with dignity by showing respect establishes a common ground for managing conflict.
'Hey, You Grabbed Me The Wrong Way!'
Have you ever taken a self-defense class and heard an instructor say something like, “No, grab my other arm?” or “Hey, you grabbed me the wrong way?” So, if you're grabbed by the wrist, the arm, the shirt, or the throat, do you really want to take the time to think about what move you need to escape? Wouldn't it be much better to have a self-defense technique that is easy to learn, recall, and...
Understanding Workplace Violence on a Deeper Level - Book Excerpt
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Understanding Workplace violence on a deeper level
No one wants to recognize (or admit) that they are a victim (of anything), so we often fail to identify certain behaviors as victimizing. But no matter how we personally understand and define lateral violence, bullying, abuse, discrimination, or harassment, it is time to expand...
Everything Is Okay Now - Confidence In Conflict Book Excerpt
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Everything is Okay Now. Respond, Don't React
“Violence can only be concealed by a lie,and the lie can only be maintained by violence.”
-Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn
The security team arrived on the unit in just a few minutes, but the floor was already quiet. The call from dispatch said a nurse was being actively assaulted, so everyone...
How much danger am I in? - Confidence In Conflict Book Excerpt
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How Much Danger Am I In? Be Alert and Decisive
“Only human beings can look directly at something, have all the information they need to make an accurate prediction, perhaps even momentarily make the accurate prediction, and then say that it isn’t so.” -Gavin de Becker
It Only Takes Seconds to Injure Your Trachea
Many nurses work with patients who are experiencing various levels of pain, fear, and emotional distress, which can sometimes lead to violence. As a result, nurses are sometimes choked by patients; and not only with their bare hands, but with I.V. tubing, electrical cords, medical device leads, I.D. lanyards, and even bedsheets! This places them, of course, in great danger of asphyxiation,...